Should You Play Jealousy To Keep Him Interested?
I remember once while I was dating with my now husband, We were in a relationship, alright. But I didn’t feel he was putting the same effort in the relationship as I was. He wasn’t really paying that much attention to me. Playing jealousy to keep him interested was my plan.
I started ignoring him, making sure that I was busy all the time when he wanted to see me. I had a very good guy friend that I had asked a big favor from him. I started hanging out with him more and just kept my self away from my real boyfriend. Well, the result was a not as expected.
First off, my now husband did not really react or respond much to my plan. Secondly, I was so tired of pretending not to care. I thought to myself – he doesn’t love me.
In the end, it turned out that he knew I was trying to make him feel something. He felt it a little in the beginning when I wasn’t free for him at all. And then after sometimes, he could read me. He knew what I was doing. So he let me continue doing it..until I gave up!
And after all ended (well) he gave me a very good piece of advice about men. Jealousy plan might work on some guys which it did for him in the beginning ,but sometimes it will backfire you because he might do the same thing if he doesn’t really care about you or if he is the type that would take revenge. You will never know how it would turn out.
My scenario – what if he started dating other woman instead? or if he thinks I like hanging out with someone else – then we might end up walking different ways. That could really really pissed me off. He also said that men and women are different. The way we put the effort into a relationship is also different. He felt that things were going good. But I thought things were going slow.
My conclusion for today – absence makes the heart grow fonder. So you can make him want you and miss you more by not clinging over him all the time. What you should do is find something that you are interested and do it!! Hang out with your friends more – do your own things more ! With that much – you will feel his love even more! If you are all over him all the time – he can’t really miss you, can he? If you know what and how they think – you wouldn’t need to make him jealous. You will automatically know how to keep him interested always.
Besides, if you feel your relationship is going slow as I was thinking – I could have done something else to spice the things up a bit. To get his attention, sure jealousy, as mentioned, might work with some men and some situations, but I would suggest to talk to him about it if you are feeling neglected or so. Be bold, be subtle, be creative, be funny, be serious just be anything, but talk to him. Think how you can spice up the love a little bit rather than risk your relationship by playing jealousy to keep him interested. And if you are married, that could lead to a totally new issue! Besides, women sometimes are over analyzing everything when there might be nothing at all.
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